I would not call myself a social media expert, but like everyone, I have my preferences. The truth is most social media posts are boring as hell, and I think we all know why. For most people, social media isn’t about conversation anymore, it’s about vanity. Almost every post these days are about one of five things: 1) Look where I am 2) Look who I know 3) Look how great I look 4) Look what I have accomplished, and 5) Look who else thinks I’m great. The last one usually goes something like “I just want to thank Real Estate Wire for naming me one of the most awesome people on the planet”. There is nothing wrong with doing some of this occasionally, but frankly, most people do it constantly, and make no mistake, no matter how many likes these posts get you, I guarantee they elicit more eye rolls than admiration.
Some of the most successful people on social media are the ones whose posts are about lifting others. They primarily post about other people or things they admire or have learned from. I like that, and while I try to stay disciplined about what I post, I admittedly find it hard not to occasionally brag about my family or NAHREP. My worst habit is that I probably post too much about politics…but even with that, I am trying to focus mostly on the positives or the political things I support, versus always criticizing what I don’t like.
I have found that if you spend most of your time lifting others up, you won’t have to spend much time lifting yourself up. Others will do it for you. Give it a try!
The attacks on DEI were never really about fairness, merit, or excellence. In this episode, I use a recent public moment to unpack what this debate is actually about — who gets recognized, who gets overlooked, and why so many people in power are threatened by any effort to widen access and opportunity. This is a conversation about merit, history, and the forces that try to preserve the status quo. The pendulum always swings, and when it does, people remember who stood where.
I saw a video recently that made me both angry and a little sad — people saying that even though they’re citizens, they don’t feel American. I understand the pain behind that feeling. But I also believe something important: America doesn’t belong to a narrow group of people, and it never has. Too often, we allow small-minded voices to define who “counts.” In this episode, I talk about identity, ownership, and why no one gets to tell you that this country isn’t yours. If you contribute to it, believe in it, and are willing to stand up for it, America belongs to you — just as much as anyone else.
Some are openly saying that immigrants make America weaker, not stronger — but the data tells a different story. Immigrants bring work ethic, entrepreneurship, and a deep appreciation for opportunity. Latino immigrants who have lived in the United States for more than 10 years have higher homeownership rates and higher net worth, and their children achieve higher levels of educational attainment. At a time when demographic decline threatens long-term growth, immigrants bring youth, household formation, and economic momentum. Meanwhile, countries with strict immigration policies are facing aging populations and stagnant economies. Immigration isn’t a weakness — it’s one of America’s greatest strengths.